{"id":644,"date":"2008-11-28T00:51:34","date_gmt":"2008-11-28T00:51:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?p=644"},"modified":"2024-03-15T07:36:05","modified_gmt":"2024-03-15T06:36:05","slug":"att-vara-sjalv-eller-att-vara-ensam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?p=644","title":{"rendered":"Att vara sj\u00e4lv eller att vara ensam"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Jag g\u00e5r inte omkring och k\u00e4nner mig ensam eller l\u00e4ngtar efter att tr\u00e4ffa n\u00e5gon. Jag letar inte, f\u00f6r jag menar att om det \u00e4r meningen att jag ska tr\u00e4ffa n\u00e5gon s\u00e5 kommer jag att tr\u00e4ffa n\u00e5gon. N\u00e5gonstans, n\u00e5gon g\u00e5ng. Men just nu i mitt liv k\u00e4nns det inte s\u00e5 viktigt med ett f\u00f6rh\u00e5llande. Men jag gr\u00e5ter inte \u00f6ver att jag \u00e4r singel. Det \u00e4r faktiskt ganska sk\u00f6nt att inte ha n\u00e5n mer \u00e4n barnen att ta h\u00e4nsyn till.<br \/>\nSj\u00e4lvklart kan jag ibland vilja ha n\u00e5n att mysa i soffan med, eller n\u00e5n att bara prata om dagen med, eller n\u00e5t annat s\u00e5nt d\u00e4r som man g\u00f6r med sin partner. Jag kan\u00a0ibland n\u00e4r jag l\u00e4ser om en relation och det ber\u00f6r mig lite extra, k\u00e4nna att jag skulle ocks\u00e5 vilja ha <em>det d\u00e4r<\/em>. Det som Nickelback beskriver s\u00e5 bra i den h\u00e4r l\u00e5ten:<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\">This time I wonder what it feels like<br \/>\nTo find the one in this life<br \/>\nThe one we all dream of<br \/>\nBut dreams just aren&#8217;t enough<br \/>\nSo I\u00b4ll be waiting for the real thing.<br \/>\nI&#8217;ll know it by the feeling.<br \/>\nThe moment when we\u00b4re meeting<br \/>\nWill play out like a scene straight off the silver screen<br \/>\nSo I`ll be holdin&#8217; my breath<br \/>\nRight up to the end<br \/>\nUntil that moment when<br \/>\nI find the one that I&#8217;ll spend forever with`Cause nobody wants to be the last one there.<br \/>\n&#8217;Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares.<br \/>\nSomeone to love with my life in their hands.<br \/>\nThere`s gotta be somebody for me like that.<\/p>\n<p>`Cause nobody wants to go it on their own<br \/>\nAnd everyone wants to know they\u00b4re not alone.<br \/>\nSomebody else that feels the same somewhere.<br \/>\nThere`s gotta be somebody for me out there.<\/p>\n<p>Tonight out on the street out in the moonlight<br \/>\nAnd damn it this feels too right<br \/>\nIt\u00b4s just like D\u00e9j\u00e0 Vu<br \/>\nMe standin&#8217; here with you<br \/>\nSo I\u00b4ll be holdin`my breath<br \/>\nCould this be the end?<br \/>\nIs it that moment when<br \/>\nI find the one that I spend forever with?<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Cause nobody wants to be the last one there<br \/>\n&#8217;Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares.<br \/>\nSomeone to love with my life in their hands.<br \/>\nThere\u00b4s gotta be somebody for me like that.<\/p>\n<p>`Cause nobody wants to go it on their own<br \/>\nAnd everyone wants to know they\u00b4re not alone.<br \/>\nSomebody else that feels the same somewhere?<br \/>\nThere`s gotta be somebody for me out there.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u00b4t give up!<br \/>\nWhen you&#8217;re Lookin\u00b4 for a diamond in the rough<br \/>\nBecause you never know when it shows up<br \/>\nMake sure you\u00b4re holdin` on<br \/>\n\u2018Cause it could be the one, the one you\u00b4re waiting on<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Cause nobody wants to be the last one there.<br \/>\nAnd everyone wants to feel like someone cares.<br \/>\nSomeone to love with my life in their hands.<br \/>\nThere&#8217;s gotta be somebody for me<br \/>\nOhhhhhh.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody wants to go it on their own<br \/>\nAnd everyone wants to know they\u00b4re not alone.<br \/>\nSomebody else that feels the same somewhere?<br \/>\nThere `s gotta be somebody for me out there.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody wants to be the last one there<br \/>\nAnd everyone wants to feel like someone cares.<br \/>\nSomebody else that feels the same somewhere?<br \/>\nThere&#8217;s gotta be somebody for me out there.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jag g\u00e5r inte omkring och k\u00e4nner mig ensam eller l\u00e4ngtar efter att tr\u00e4ffa n\u00e5gon. Jag letar inte, f\u00f6r jag menar att om det \u00e4r meningen att jag ska tr\u00e4ffa n\u00e5gon s\u00e5 kommer jag att tr\u00e4ffa n\u00e5gon. N\u00e5gonstans, n\u00e5gon g\u00e5ng. Men just nu i mitt liv k\u00e4nns det inte s\u00e5 viktigt med ett f\u00f6rh\u00e5llande. Men jag&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[47],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-644","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-vardagsliv"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3qko4-ao","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":219,"url":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?p=219","url_meta":{"origin":644,"position":0},"title":"Gr\u00f6nt \u00e4r sk\u00f6nt","author":"M :)","date":"2010-06-05","format":false,"excerpt":"Alla som k\u00e4nner mig vet att gr\u00f6nt \u00e4r min favoritf\u00e4rg. Men inte nog med det, Green Day \u00e4r dessutom ett av mina favoritband. Och ikv\u00e4ll sm\u00e4ller det. Eller ja, ikv\u00e4ll intar de Ullevi inf\u00f6r n\u00e4stan 30000 personer, och Kerstin och jag kommer att vara tv\u00e5 av de personerna! Kan inte\u2026","rel":"","context":"I \u201dVardagsliv\u201d","block_context":{"text":"Vardagsliv","link":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?cat=47"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/img.youtube.com\/vi\/uO_rV8pvpas\/0.jpg?resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":897,"url":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?p=897","url_meta":{"origin":644,"position":1},"title":"Emma hade en lista","author":"M :)","date":"2009-04-22","format":false,"excerpt":"som jag naturligtvis inte kunde l\u00e5ta bli att kopiera:Du heter: Marcella Elisabetta FumeiSmeknamn: Tella av familj och \"gamla\" v\u00e4nner...Beroende av: S\u00f6mn och b\u00f6ckerVad beh\u00f6ver du mest just nu: PengarVad tror folk om dig? F\u00f6rmodligen en hel del...St\u00e4mmer det? ...som ibland \u00e4r helt upp\u00e5t v\u00e4ggarnaVad f\u00e5r du oftast komplimanger f\u00f6r? Har\u2026","rel":"","context":"I \u201dVardagsliv\u201d","block_context":{"text":"Vardagsliv","link":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?cat=47"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":3758,"url":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?p=3758","url_meta":{"origin":644,"position":2},"title":"Tr\u00f6tt, tr\u00f6ttare, tr\u00f6ttast&#8230;","author":"M :)","date":"2015-11-14","format":false,"excerpt":"S\u00f6mnbrist. Ingen\u00a0hit. Inte alls kul. Varf\u00f6r jag \u00e5terigen har s\u00f6mnbrist beror p\u00e5 en m\u00e4ngd olika faktorer; instabil ekonomi, ensamhet, h\u00f6stdepression, klimakteriehormonrubbning och att saker och ting rent allm\u00e4nt b\u00f6rjar krypa ikapp mig. Saker som kan g\u00f6ra \u00e4ven den st\u00f6rsta sjusovaren s\u00f6mnl\u00f6s. S\u00e5 allts\u00e5 sover jag inte. Eller, sover g\u00f6r jag,\u2026","rel":"","context":"I \u201dVardagsliv\u201d","block_context":{"text":"Vardagsliv","link":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?cat=47"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":1053,"url":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?p=1053","url_meta":{"origin":644,"position":3},"title":"Tjejsnack vecka 35","author":"M :)","date":"2009-08-27","format":false,"excerpt":"Vill du ocks\u00e5 vara med? Du hittar Tjejsnack h\u00e4r. G\u00e4ster 1. Hur ofta brukar du ha g\u00e4ster? Det beror p\u00e5 vad som menas med g\u00e4ster. Mina f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrar h\u00e4lsar p\u00e5 n\u00e5n g\u00e5ng varje vecka, annars \u00e4r det inte m\u00e5nga g\u00e4ster som passerar genom v\u00e5rt hem. AV n\u00e5n anledning verkar de flesta\u2026","rel":"","context":"I \u201dVardagsliv\u201d","block_context":{"text":"Vardagsliv","link":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?cat=47"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":2746,"url":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?p=2746","url_meta":{"origin":644,"position":4},"title":"Buzzning: Pantene Pro-V","author":"M :)","date":"2012-08-26","format":false,"excerpt":"Detta erbjudande \u00e4r inte l\u00e4ngre aktuellt! Jag \u00e4r en Buzzador. Det inneb\u00e4r att jag med j\u00e4mna mellanrum f\u00e5r erbjudanden om att testa produkter eller tj\u00e4nster \u00e5t olika f\u00f6retag, att ber\u00e4tta om produkten\/tj\u00e4nsten f\u00f6r v\u00e4nner, bekanta och kollegor och att jag sedan rapporterar vad jag och de jag \"buzzat\" f\u00f6r tyckte\u2026","rel":"","context":"I \u201dVardagsliv\u201d","block_context":{"text":"Vardagsliv","link":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?cat=47"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/pantene4.png?resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":545,"url":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?p=545","url_meta":{"origin":644,"position":5},"title":"Dags f\u00f6r en lista igen","author":"M :)","date":"2008-09-14","format":false,"excerpt":"Man hittar s\u00e5 mycket skr\u00e4p n\u00e4r man rensar, tex den h\u00e4r listan:(Vassego Emma, det \u00e4r bara att kopiera ;) )Vilken \u00e4r din favoritbok? 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