{"id":6855,"date":"2024-03-08T18:26:00","date_gmt":"2024-03-08T17:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?p=6855"},"modified":"2024-05-01T13:15:26","modified_gmt":"2024-05-01T11:15:26","slug":"en-stilla-stund","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?p=6855","title":{"rendered":"En stilla stund"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Idag \u00e4r det 7 \u00e5r sedan pappa dog och 2 \u00e5r sedan \u00e4ven mamma l\u00e4mnade oss. Jag har varit i minneslunden och t\u00e4nt ljus och bara suttit en l\u00e5ng stund och t\u00e4nkt p\u00e5 dem. <br \/>Jag saknar dem dagligen, det kommer nog aldrig att g\u00e5 \u00f6ver. Den d\u00e4r k\u00e4nslan av att vilja ringa och ber\u00e4tta saker, eller fr\u00e5ga om n\u00e5got, eller bara kolla l\u00e4get, den kommer \u00f6ver mig n\u00e4r jag minst anar det. Det har blivit lite l\u00e4ttare, men \u00e4nd\u00e5 f\u00e5r jag fortfarande ett litet hugg i hj\u00e4rtat och en klump i halsen n\u00e4r det h\u00e4nder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jag saknar er s\u00e5 o\u00e4ndligt! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" data-attachment-id=\"6856\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?attachment_id=6856\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/39F6292B-DB07-4FAA-A5E1-7647A5445578_1_105_c.jpeg?fit=886%2C886&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"886,886\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"39F6292B-DB07-4FAA-A5E1-7647A5445578_1_105_c\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/39F6292B-DB07-4FAA-A5E1-7647A5445578_1_105_c.jpeg?fit=640%2C640&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/39F6292B-DB07-4FAA-A5E1-7647A5445578_1_105_c.jpeg?resize=640%2C640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6856\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/39F6292B-DB07-4FAA-A5E1-7647A5445578_1_105_c.jpeg?resize=650%2C650&amp;ssl=1 650w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/39F6292B-DB07-4FAA-A5E1-7647A5445578_1_105_c.jpeg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/39F6292B-DB07-4FAA-A5E1-7647A5445578_1_105_c.jpeg?resize=180%2C180&amp;ssl=1 180w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/39F6292B-DB07-4FAA-A5E1-7647A5445578_1_105_c.jpeg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/39F6292B-DB07-4FAA-A5E1-7647A5445578_1_105_c.jpeg?w=886&amp;ssl=1 886w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" data-attachment-id=\"6871\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?attachment_id=6871\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/627C3543-C8A7-4E03-B2BA-D4F29CF24A9A.jpeg?fit=766%2C767&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"766,767\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"627C3543-C8A7-4E03-B2BA-D4F29CF24A9A\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/627C3543-C8A7-4E03-B2BA-D4F29CF24A9A.jpeg?fit=640%2C640&amp;ssl=1\" data-id=\"6871\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/627C3543-C8A7-4E03-B2BA-D4F29CF24A9A.jpeg?resize=640%2C640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6871\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/627C3543-C8A7-4E03-B2BA-D4F29CF24A9A.jpeg?resize=650%2C650&amp;ssl=1 650w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/627C3543-C8A7-4E03-B2BA-D4F29CF24A9A.jpeg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/627C3543-C8A7-4E03-B2BA-D4F29CF24A9A.jpeg?resize=180%2C180&amp;ssl=1 180w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/627C3543-C8A7-4E03-B2BA-D4F29CF24A9A.jpeg?w=766&amp;ssl=1 766w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Idag \u00e4r det 7 \u00e5r sedan pappa dog och 2 \u00e5r sedan \u00e4ven mamma l\u00e4mnade oss. 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Den d\u00e4r k\u00e4nslan av att vilja ringa och ber\u00e4tta saker,&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[34],"tags":[357,312,651,80,595],"class_list":["post-6855","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-familjen","tag-foraldrar","tag-mamma","tag-minneslund","tag-pappa","tag-saknar"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3qko4-1Mz","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":6983,"url":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?p=6983","url_meta":{"origin":6855,"position":0},"title":"T\u00e4nd ett ljus","author":"M :)","date":"2023-11-03","format":false,"excerpt":"Jag har varit i minneslunden ikv\u00e4ll och t\u00e4nt ljus f\u00f6r mamma och pappa. ???? \u2764\ufe0f","rel":"","context":"I \u201dFamiljen\u201d","block_context":{"text":"Familjen","link":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?cat=34"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/B72B7734-9277-40D2-A257-15BBA3DCCC77_1_105_c-edited.jpeg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/B72B7734-9277-40D2-A257-15BBA3DCCC77_1_105_c-edited.jpeg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/B72B7734-9277-40D2-A257-15BBA3DCCC77_1_105_c-edited.jpeg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogg.fumei.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/B72B7734-9277-40D2-A257-15BBA3DCCC77_1_105_c-edited.jpeg?resize=700%2C400&ssl=1 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":4339,"url":"https:\/\/blogg.fumei.se\/?p=4339","url_meta":{"origin":6855,"position":1},"title":"Att ta adj\u00f6","author":"M :)","date":"2017-03-30","format":false,"excerpt":"Ig\u00e5r hade vi begravning f\u00f6r pappa. 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